We all have the need to be accepted by society and above all, to be liked by people. We like being loved and cared about. But how exactly can we make that happen? Just take a chill pill and read on.
Here it goes:
1) Be the first to reach out to help
When you see helpless people, for instance, a child or an old gentleman in need of help, be the first to reach out. When you see your friends and acquaintances bogged down with low spirits, cheer them up by being funny. Make them laugh and help them forget their worries. Always be the jolly person around and make others happy. This way, no one will fail to notice you or stop liking you.
2) Every person in the world needs a feeling of importance
Fulfill that need for them by honoring their values, wishes, and ambitions. Once they find that you are actually making them feel important, they can't help but smile and adore you. They will find a friend in you and appreciate it.
3) Compliment genuinely every person you meet
A good compliment on their hair style, dress, or accessories will certainly make their day. So make it a habit. Start with your own family members and spread it to the outside world. There is enough love to go around if you start complimenting others. Love everybody - not only your family but your community, friends, colleagues including your boss at work, acquaintances, and even strangers. You are bound to be loved back, and that will make you feel good.
4) Always help a friend in need
If you are able to give your friends what they need badly and urgently, sure they will not only appreciate but also become absolutely fond of you. Even if they drift away from you, they will always remember you, stay in touch and be grateful to you.
5) Give good and beneficial gifts on birthdays and anniversaries of friends and family
They should be something they crave for and don't already possess. The more you mix with them, it will be clearer to you what it is they really would like to have and don't have already. This will make them immensely like you.
6) Play with the kids in your community
The kids will love you for that. So will the parents of these kids for taking care of their children.
7) Wear a smile always all the time and greet people happily
People will find you enigmatic and be drawn to you. They would come to share their problems with you. Show them empathy and if possible, solve their problems for them. Immediately you will be the go-to-guy person around, and people will flock around you because they like you so much.
Summing up, these are some of the ways you can be an immensely likable and adorable person whom people would consider a valuable gem to be around.